For me, going on longish trips is always bittersweet. I say longish because it's all a matter of perspective. As Americans, most of us view a 6 week trip as a huge vacation. I've been asked more than once, "why do you want to go for so long?". On the flip side, 6 weeks to Europeans is not such a big deal as they often go for much longer. Several years ago I met a Japanese couple climbing in Mexico. I asked how long there were traveling and their answer was "not too long, only 2 years"! So like a lot of life, it's all a question of scale and perspective.
Anyway, on to the bittersweet part. I love to travel and climb at new places and my job often affords me the luxury to do so for extended periods of time. Unfortunately, Theresa has a normal "real" job which prevents her from taking large chunks of time off. We've dealt with this several times by scheduling her trips in the middle of mine. That way we're only apart for 2 weeks or so at any given time. While this isn't ideal, it makes it bearable, plus we're able to keep in touch via email. This year we're going to try Skype which I just installed on our computers to stay in touch via free VOIP phone conversations. Hopefully it will be a successful experiment.
But wait, my babies can't talk over the phone! For those who don't know, my babies are the two big labs in the picture above, Bourbon and Ripley. The time away from them is tough and sometimes I succomb to temptation and pet other dogs (but don't tell them that). One of the highlights of coming home from long trips is opening the door and getting to see them run across the room at me. I look forward to it already.
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